I have suggested a date night just for us but, he doesn't want a scheduled night for dates. With all of this said, I wish I would have found your blog earlier. And depending on his views of the Sabbath, you will probably get the tug of war on Sundays. Due to their religious teachings, Mormons do not smoke, drink alcohol or caffeinated "hot drinks" coffee or tea or do drugs.
Marriage is hard, period. My sisters married to the temple served a mission etcв. I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very likely scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing. The schedule is erratic at best. Second, in my experience mormons have been some of the kindest people I've ever had the privilege to know, and they have not lived up to the cult image you describe. You need to disabuse them of this notion. And you know what. There will always be difference between spouses. I admit it is sometimes depressing going to bed without him and getting up seeing him still studying but I am sure we will survive this.
Or should I just run and avoid a lifetime of heartbreak. Someday she may really regret everything, and miss you like crazy. Is it wrong to make those types of sacrifices.
I read through a few of the LDS. Mormon decried it was all a lie, an anti mormon lie. No one, except someone who has been Mormon can understand how deep the hooks are sunk into the Mormon psyche. I know my husband appreciates me looking into it because he knows I am doing it to gain an understanding into the culture he was raised in. This usually works out great.