The church can be a very cruel place for single people. She is in pretty deep and culture is a powerful force. God roots for both our teamsвthe hopeful screw-ups and the straights. Maybe things would be have different if I had been older or if I had not been so fragile. If you can put yourself in his shoes, you would understand that, first of all, he is barraged by hungry patients all wanting answers and a piece of him. They will serve as a constant reminder to her that she needs to conform- and you won't be wearing any.
By Thursday, I'd feel like he disappeared. They could fill a book, the stories I could tell. If you can only think of alcohol and coffee for a good time, you're very disappointed. I also know that whenever exceptions are made, there are reasons.
And if he loves you as much as you love him. I don't want to make a mistake by leaving everything I have going on for me for him. There's no way a TBM is dating you if she knows about your Lucifer kick. I understand in some measure of the pressure on the provider, but this profession was their choice. Dating in your teenage years will help you learn the kinds of things you value in another person. I am just starting to get a little panicky and upset about this the more I think about it.
We also live in a foreign country which is another element of difficulty. Mormons have separate congregations for young single adults, which is very convenient. We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it. I think I handle the lonliness a little better than most because I was an only child and like having my alone time. And Mormons were basically encouraged to marry other mormons. I will, and have said before that is is one of the worst decisions to marry a doctor also. I have been a doctor's wife for almost 2 years - and we have been together for about 7 years, since right before intern year. I want to make this relationship work so bad, but I feel like he will never understand. There are such things as perfect loving families though. Don't expect this to be like the others.