Why shouldn't both people be responsible for making it work. Please start another thread and continue the conversation. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM. Facebook Email Twitter Print. She asked me the other night how it's possible for me to be such a good person when I don't believe in god. Being a doctor means you sacrifice for others, and your family and spouse sacrifices while standing in the shadows of your career. I am in my first year of medicine.
You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. I have no control over my schedule I'm sure you all remember those daysand it kills me to know that he has moved thousands of kilometers away from our home town with me so that I can do this residency. If you can only think of alcohol and coffee for a good time, you're very disappointed. I had to drive 2 hours alone - and spend the next day alone - bc his partner was out of town - and he could t leave 12 patients on the floor.
I have believed in for better for worse but I cant do it any longer. Mormon women greatly value sincerity of purpose. No one knows your situation the way you do. You should take your cues from your partner, not from documentaries or this sub, on whether your partner's views and actions are manipulative, brainwashy and damaging. Trust me, I too tried to make it work with my very Mormon also returned missionary ex-girlfriend. I had many extremely hurtful things said to me, along with an intervention hosted by my married-in-the-temple-and-divorced grandmother. I'm glad you both have found a way to get past the incredible forces that are working against you. Trust Building Exercises for Couples.
So I feel a little frightened after reading this blog. Lyman April 24, How appropriate to celebrate this second night of Hannukah with not one but two queries about interfaith marriage. It is very painful, considering that we have an 8-year old son. This is my own personal opinion. Do FaceTime with her when she gets there to drink tea. Until our marriage, I was living a care free life when I would do things as I please. Post was not sent - check your email addresses. I made the decision not to have those things when I married a non-member.