Being married to a doctor is a difficult thing to balance. The standard principles of day game apply. Now, lest you look at this all and say, "sheesh, go to counseling. Think of it as giving him a prompt, and now he gets to give his thoughts. My Buddhist husband likes Mormons and even going to church.
Their thinking is something like this. I think marriage means sacrifice on both sides. Ask Mormon Girl is the blog of author Joanna Brooks. The kids are so involved and I am busy with them but I long for my husband to work less. He gave me a very clear answer that this was right. We get along exceptionally well and I really like him though, so I can see this going somewhere.
After my divorce I dated Mormon men в disastrous. I am professor, and he is a surgeon in his first year as an attending. Do you work Easter, the day after your baby is born, weekends, nights. All the other stuffв is crap. All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father. In each case, you should also consider how this will affect your families. I had told him that if he hadn't changed jobs, that I wouldn't have left him but that our relationship would probably become irreparable. Several of the apostles have grown up in part member homes.
As for having children, expect to be a single parent. You've all been so helpful. And a happy ChristmaChannuKwanzaKah to everyone. Too many disappointments, sick nights without your husbands, his absence during family gatherings, my usual OBGYN checkup without him, even simple things of hugging and spending quality time is always remote. Yes, it is bad. In the end people have to make their own decisions. IF she becomes an Atheist free thinker like you then consider keeping her. You will always be second place. I am Roman Catholic so I believe almost the exact same things as a regular-non mobot- type mormon This religion Mormonism has a dual identity where some believers are closed mined fools. I've read through some stuff there and it all seems pretty tame so far.