Let her go right now then. Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. However, my situation is very different. Best of both worlds if you ask me. I'd suggest taking issue with things that specifically bug you the most. I told her that is noble but she would be selfish to marry and work 80 hour work weeks yet if she does marry I can not see any man who would selflessly give over decades for the sake of his wife's career. This can also be the basis for forming important friendships, and learning proper skills for social interaction. And sometimes I think we equate easiness with happiness. I have been married to a doctor for 5 years now and we have two children. That conversation prompted me to find and read through this sub, and there's some seriously disturbing shit here.
I really admire all of you here, who are married but live a very lonely live. Now those are not the problems in my head anymore, whats in my head is how arewe goin to deal with this, ive told her sometimes u wont have anytime for me nor for your kids if we decide to have kids you wont be at the holidays nothing like that and she is always tryin to see everything positive and tells me dont worry ill schedule myself, and im like baby you will not be able to schedule urself your life would be in a hospital. This post and the comments are an eye opener. She's likely openly telling her family that it's okay he's not Mormon because she's going to get him baptized. Is forever possible with a doctor??. Before that, you are encouraged to date, but not exclusively. You are not a worthy RM priesthood holder. Is it wrong to make those types of sacrifices. Be with a nice guy and a doctor who will not put himself or his love for money first or his ego first.
At parties, they drink soda and play board games. The independent work is just as important as the work we do as a couple. In my view, baptism at 8 is just a variation on infant baptism.
I have been married to an anesthesiologist for 15 years his 2nd marriage. A Mormon wife will also want to bring the kids along, and that should be discussed and decided before marriage and before kids. Until our marriage, I was living a care free life when I would do things as I please. For men, this will likely come after completing your mission trip, so in your early 20s at the earliest. Affection will come and go based on our attitudes, and will not carry through the rough spots в married in the Church or outside. There is no freedom to think, no freedom to speak your mind, and no freedom to do anything that 'the brethren' say not to.