They want a man who has navigated the stormy seas of the world, who has just a little bit of history, and has overcome the degenerate worldly culture, a man who has discovered for himself where peace and happiness lie. You need to do this ceremony first where you end up pledging all your money and property to the church:. The ex gets it all lol.
Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. I was thinking the same thing when I read this. If you were the one who did the asking, it is simply chivalrous and gentlemanly for you to pay for dinner, the movie, or whatever else you do. Again, though the evolving times may have brought about a relaxation in this rule, it is still followed by many youngsters. In many ways, she was everything that I ever wanted in a spouse, but in other ways she was not what I ever expected. This was hard for me because my faith is deeply rooted within me. There are some gems like admission to peep stone in a hat translation to the book of Mormon and angels with swords commanding polygamy, but if someone believes Joseph Smith really did stuff his face into a hat and translate scriptures about ancient jews coming to America, it means they are insane, and you can't reason with an insane person.
The ideal, in my opinion, is that she discovers what we all know about the lies the church tells her. I simply do NOT believe he and I will not be together after we die. In the end people have to make their own decisions. Mormons are also taught "Families can be together forever. But he told me that he needs a wife who could take care of him, kids and house.
Dating in your teenage years will help you learn the kinds of things you value in another person. I wouldn't wish this shit on my enemy. A wonderful resource tool with great updates.