This was the biggest one for me. It gets better towards the later part of the whole deal, but it's always going to be kind of crazy busy. I will keep reading, but it looks like most of the stuff about racism and polygamy has been "adequately" explained away by updates to LDS. Because you are a good person, you will recognize the influence of the Holy Ghost and know that the church is true. There are many good things. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. Try a variety of dates. She's willing to talk about anything I find directly on LDS. My faith, while less orthodox, has certainly matured. He was home alone on his one day off while I took off with our kids to visit family states away.
Of course, your parents will care most. Every new set in our ward looks at him as fresh meat. If my mother needed her surgeon's attention, I wouldn't want him to be thinking about his wife's lamenting that he's never home, not romantic, etc. I chose to get married and move across the state to live with my husband and left my job, family and friends and let me tell you, it's been tremendously difficult to meet new friends in the new town. I was with him before I even started college and the past year was especially tough as I am getting more and more busy. Mormon women greatly value sincerity of purpose.
Easily found in most hospital lobbies. And no I would not pressure them to convert but as a Latter-day Saint I would pray for them to convert as I do for many people I know and love. It really helped to make me feel better. Your husbands love you, and love that you are able to do what they cannot.
Make sure everyone involved is a couple, or at least is paired with someone. I tried to date Mormon women, honestly. I am not sorry I married outside the LDS faith.