I don't think anyone here intended a dismissal of the girl as a human being by stating such. You should ask Him what you should do, as no one else can see the end from the beginning and no one else has perfect love for you and for your potential husband. I think a lot of people just yell run whenever this topic comes up and like you I think that's unfair. We are at odds about this constantly.
This means no swearing, loud talking, or making offensive jokes. Here's my advice though: It doesn't sound like you want that though, so you're going to have to talk to him. Trust me, I too tried to make it work with my very Mormon also returned missionary ex-girlfriend. The views expressed by individual users are the responsibility of those users and do not necessarily represent the position of the Church.
Life is too short. The first week home he is already covering someone elses cases I struggle with where to draw the line Again we have never had coverage when we needed it. That isn't fair on you, and again will create stress and a stress point in the relationship. Don't let her try to bring in the missionaries to explain; remind her that she is an RM and knows all they do and probably much more. I married a person, not a religion.
He fit me- does that make sense. And after years of this struggle, will your love for him and desire to avoid the hassle cause you to reduce your activation. Because Mormons retain old-fashioned values, Mormon girls are raised in a traditional environment by good fathers. In other words, eternal marriage really is worth it, I think. God roots for both our teamsвthe hopeful screw-ups and the straights. I've never understood that bit of the LDS culture. Probably drop me a text or two. There is still a chance you can work out your differences, but it will require major concessions on both sides. I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up. My father told him it's never too late to leave whether we are married with kids or just engaged.