Though being with a resident is hard, it can be totally worth it if you're committed to the person and you know that they are committed to you - you just have to realize that commitment will look different coming from them. And I never found that "good Mormon girl". You just need to figure out where your girlfriend is. Your girlfriend might, or maybe IS, going through this. Even Mormon girls who marry non-Mormons want great dads for their kids, and they are oriented to having kids, sometimes many kids.
This is crunch time and years worth of effort are on the line for him. He has no vices, is the happiest person I know, is a healthy role model of manhood for my teen daughter and loves me to the depth of his soul. We are best friends, and you will always have time for your best friend. Mormon girls are raised to believe their worth is how young they marry and how many kids they have.
So there's THAT to look forward to. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. Until our marriage, I was living a care free life when I would do things as I please.
In some cases you can just simply live together with differing religions. All this said, God is love and fully understands and appreciates your problem. Today, at my ward sacrament meeting, in the back section of the chapel where I was sitting, all the women except one were Mormon wives in interfaith families. Blogroll By Common Consent C. My dad was in the bishopric for most of my childhood, and I was never the person you describe here.